Spandex Dreams: Drag Queens & Quarterbacks
excerpt from of Drag Queens and Quarterbacks
The Gay and Lesbian Review
"At this intersection of consumption and truth, we find some of our most timely and important platforms: catwalks and football fields alike. Entertainment is an amalgam of authenticity and invention presented by an artist’s lived experience—some majestic slurry of their joy, pain, and dedication. To consume their art and the glory of their athletic achievements without regard for their experience is like honoring Gandhi by hosting a cheeseburger festival.
It may seem unlikely that a black football star and a white drag queen’s hot pants are cut from the same cloth, but shimmy into your spandex and follow me."
Photo Credit: Justin Cimon
The Gay and Lesbian Review
"At this intersection of consumption and truth, we find some of our most timely and important platforms: catwalks and football fields alike. Entertainment is an amalgam of authenticity and invention presented by an artist’s lived experience—some majestic slurry of their joy, pain, and dedication. To consume their art and the glory of their athletic achievements without regard for their experience is like honoring Gandhi by hosting a cheeseburger festival.
It may seem unlikely that a black football star and a white drag queen’s hot pants are cut from the same cloth, but shimmy into your spandex and follow me."
Photo Credit: Justin Cimon
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The battle for food sovereignty is ever entwined within existing oppressive systems, and it is here that I make a conscious decision to engage and lay my privilege on the line for the greater good. Within all just endeavors, there is interconnectedness, mirroring that which we see in nature. The hue of my hands, long in the loam, has changed over time, and my voice has strengthened—but there is much work still to be done.
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